i think this a great take! to give another perspective on the βpuritanicalnessβ of some of gen z, or at least folks who identify as afab, iβve noticed those who are queer only abstaining from sex with straight cis het men or being really selective but not from sex entirely, and those who are straight being really selective due to how many young cis het men have bought into right wing ideology, although there are some who have bought into the puritanical vibes, many at least in the left leaning spaces i inhabit have not bought into it, but may look like they have due to being extremely selective or abstaining entirely from sex with cis het men. that being said i think your point still holds true, and there is definitely a βno me jodasβ panic of feeling like one must choose between the two extremes going on for gen z afab folks in addition to a re-examination of the girl boss culture many of us were raised on.
Well said. I can definitely see this dynamic in this country. Itβs even in the music I feel like. I feel like good love songs hardly exist these days.
i think this a great take! to give another perspective on the βpuritanicalnessβ of some of gen z, or at least folks who identify as afab, iβve noticed those who are queer only abstaining from sex with straight cis het men or being really selective but not from sex entirely, and those who are straight being really selective due to how many young cis het men have bought into right wing ideology, although there are some who have bought into the puritanical vibes, many at least in the left leaning spaces i inhabit have not bought into it, but may look like they have due to being extremely selective or abstaining entirely from sex with cis het men. that being said i think your point still holds true, and there is definitely a βno me jodasβ panic of feeling like one must choose between the two extremes going on for gen z afab folks in addition to a re-examination of the girl boss culture many of us were raised on.
apologies for the run on sentences i clearly had a lot of thoughts π€£π
Well said. I can definitely see this dynamic in this country. Itβs even in the music I feel like. I feel like good love songs hardly exist these days.