oh Ginger. i am so sad and mad for you that you have also experienced that as well. thanks for sharing your experience because this still fucking shakes me! likeβ¦ one of my most vulnerable moments, a trauma, weaponized. itβs the worst. i never handle it well. i feel you on being a clam!!! happy to have found you too, thank you!!!! π₯ΉβΊοΈππ₯°
oh my god the chameleon thing is so real!!! my coworkers that actually have the privilege of KNOWINGβ’οΈ me have named my βstraightβ alter ego at the office βsusanβ ππ€πΉπ also i love all of this! iβm very selective about who i feel comfy telling about the reason iβm no contact with certain family bc itβs been used against me by bone collectors in the past. i feel u on the adhd urge to overshare and connect, and working to find the balance somewhere in between the public library and the vault.
BAHAHAHA, "Knowing" with a trademark. That part. I really feel you on the existence of Susan, because working in construction, the shit these people would say to me all the time. I'm glad that I was able to pass for the most part, but sometimes one of them would get mouthy with me and gay-vestigate me. It was fucking uncomfortable. And this is all without mentioning the other bone collectors - the co-worker that watches tour every move to have dirt on you, etc etc. People are out here trying to fuck us up! And here I am, oversharing like I didn't learn my lesson. It's a tough balance to achieve.
This is GOLD. I have also shared sexual trauma, and it was turned around on me. It hurts, and in that case it ruined my life for a long time.
It also made me a damn clam, unable to share anything, until I came to substack - the only place in the world where I am openly bisexual.
Fantastic writing and advice! Glad to have found youuuuu!
oh Ginger. i am so sad and mad for you that you have also experienced that as well. thanks for sharing your experience because this still fucking shakes me! likeβ¦ one of my most vulnerable moments, a trauma, weaponized. itβs the worst. i never handle it well. i feel you on being a clam!!! happy to have found you too, thank you!!!! π₯ΉβΊοΈππ₯°
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oh my god the chameleon thing is so real!!! my coworkers that actually have the privilege of KNOWINGβ’οΈ me have named my βstraightβ alter ego at the office βsusanβ ππ€πΉπ also i love all of this! iβm very selective about who i feel comfy telling about the reason iβm no contact with certain family bc itβs been used against me by bone collectors in the past. i feel u on the adhd urge to overshare and connect, and working to find the balance somewhere in between the public library and the vault.
BAHAHAHA, "Knowing" with a trademark. That part. I really feel you on the existence of Susan, because working in construction, the shit these people would say to me all the time. I'm glad that I was able to pass for the most part, but sometimes one of them would get mouthy with me and gay-vestigate me. It was fucking uncomfortable. And this is all without mentioning the other bone collectors - the co-worker that watches tour every move to have dirt on you, etc etc. People are out here trying to fuck us up! And here I am, oversharing like I didn't learn my lesson. It's a tough balance to achieve.